Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Go.........Learn.......Become

From August 12, 2007 to June 13, 2008 I got an opportunity with the Fellowship of Christian Unions (FOCUS) Uganda to attend Hald International Center in Mandal, Norway and participate in the youth exchange programme of Norwegian Universities and Schools Christian Fellowship (NKSS), funded by Fredskorpset (FK) Norway.

At Hald International Centre the setting is really multicultural. The students come from four continents, and 13 different countries of, Uganda, Norway, Brazil, Kenya, Tanzania, Madagascar, Cameroon, Peru, Bolivia, Thailand, Laos, Serbia and Montenegro. The academic year consisted of a 6 week preparatory course, 6 ½ months internship in an area in Norway for the international students or the participating countries for the Norwegian students and 9 weeks of studies and information work.

Studies included, culture and intercultural communication which focused on learning to live in a different culture, Christian faith, mission and social ministries, Development and global issues where equality for all and poverty eradication in the poor countries of the world was emphasised, Leadership development and personal growth, communication and information work, as well as Language skills-Norwegian is the official language. Country evenings took place, where students presented their (placement) countries, through food, clothes and entertainment.




Norway is a beautiful country with mountains, fjords, pine forests and vibrant cities. In summer the trees and grass are green, as fall sets in green turns to yellow, brown, orange, and purple which looks magnificent. In winter the snow piles gently on the ground as though intent on not harming the life beneath leaving a sight of white everywhere. With the coming of spring, more smiles appear on peoples’ faces, flowers sprout and trees start budding. Life has come back, the sun shines again and no one wants to stay indoors on a bright spring day.

The country is safe one need not worry about being robbed or attacked, the air is fresh, the environment clean (rubbish bins are in all public places and people make use of them). Many things still stand out for me, the lovely people who appear closed in at first but are really nice when one gets to know them, friendly smiles, going out to movies with friends, learning to ski, picking berries in bushes, taking walks in the night and the sun is still shining, roasting sausages on open fire on a cold winter day drinking hot chocolate, eating bread, seeing apple trees everywhere laden with fruits, coloured mailboxes on homes and wooden houses painted white, cream, red, yellow or grey.

Learning to cope in a different culture was challenging though interesting. The food was strange, the language foreign, the weather very cold. Cultural differences can bring the best experiences to ones’ life as well as misunderstandings, for example an innocent comment like, “You look smart” intended as a compliment can create hurt feelings.

Coming from a relationship based culture to one based on efficiency thus task oriented, I thought it polite to first greet and indulge in small talk before enquiring about things, but that was ‘wasting’ people’s time. Everything seemed to move very fast. People seemed always on a rush to get somewhere. Respecting someone means stating the main points when you call and arriving early for appointments.

Clothes are a very important issue I learnt that there is no bad weather but bad clothing. I loathed putting on the four or five layers of clothes, but when temperatures are 20 degrees below zero, the saying that smartness knows no weather does not apply.

Issues that fascinated me which I hope that as a country we could learn and implement include;
Children have a commissioner who promotes their interests regarding public and private authorities and follows up their growth and development conditions. It is forbidden to physically punish children. They are instead taught independence and responsibility while encouraging a love for nature and respect for others.

The people have a do it yourself attitude where they like to work with their hands to accomplish at home daily tasks. There are no housemaids so all the house work is done by the occupiers of the house. We too could do our own house work and not pay someone else to do it, transform what seems like hard work into pleasurable expenditure of energy.

Health services are financed through compulsory membership in the national insurance scheme which covers the entire population. This prevents social problems, promotes economic and social security and improves living conditions for people. Everyone has access to a doctor.

The country is rich mainly because of the oil and fish industry, but people are careful on how they spend their money. Simple lessons I learnt: Send an SMS instead of calling, don’t buy low quality things just because they are cheap, have broad knowledge on what is happening and in all think about the environment and how the decisions made will affect it.

I am grateful I got this experience as I have obtained new knowledge and understanding. Involvement with different cultures has broadened my thinking and changed my world view. The world now seems smaller.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

The give away!


This is a traditional Kinyankore ceremony where the girl's family gives her away to the family of the boy for marriage. We were given...and man, was she a beauty!!!! Trouble is .... many girls are brought and the groom has to pick the right lady...woe unto him that chooses wrongly! Interesting.........
With some of the guests.

Monday, July 28, 2008

The field

Yeah now I know what it means to be in the field....get up very early, have a busy day, sleep late. Incredible...haven't got time to meet some of my friends...they are either busy or am busy...oops. Is this what it all ought to be? Guess not!!!

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Work


I sit in here with Kenneth, Godwin and Pascal. The company is Country Safaris, a tour company in Uganda offering: Gorilla tracking and hiking, Mountaineering on the mountains Rwenzori and Elgon, Bird watching, Chimpanzee tracking, White water rafting, Nature walks, Group camping, Family and corporate retreats, Cultural visits/entertainment and Bridal entourage cars.

Information work


I've been a while now in Uganda. Got a job....so am a hapi lady. This was a day off from the busy schedule... and uncle Sam took Faith and I away to the beach with the ladies who'll be in Trd this year! We talked alot about Norway, the experiences we got, and what they shd expect....guys this was a great time to reflect back esp. with the waves of L.Victoria laping at our feet! Information work is ok...just that people are more interested in telling what happened while I was away... still trying different ways to deliver what I learnt.

Friday, July 11, 2008

Introducing team FOCUS Uganda!


Same same but different...........this is the team that touched and is still touching many hearts in Uganda..Bravo people. Keep doing the good work.

Monday, June 30, 2008

In Uganda!!


On June 13th we tearfully left Hald…the time together seemed very short!!!! N’how it didn’t feel like ten months. I found a convoy of hapi faces at Entebbe airport. Oh, I felt much loved when I found my family and friends waiting for me….and there after to a surprise dinner. I’ve now been in Uganda for two weeks...and it feels good to be back, meet friends, and well, interestingly notice things I almost never noticed b4! I eat matooke everyday!!!!uhhmm miss “the bread” tho’…here it’s different without pǻ legg esp brown cheese!! Started on information work….our home coming seminar was great, in Banana village… guys, this is one place in Uganda that you sh’d visit. I’m hapi 2 be back…have adjusted to the place…mad at kavera…it’s everywhere!!

Monday, May 12, 2008

Out in the sun



Sure feels good to go out in the sun...breathe the fresh air....and yea got it right loose layers of clothes.

Dinner

With Lars og Bjørg
With Jorunn

Tuesday, April 8, 2008

The botanical garden

With Joseph, Dina,Tolkel....
The flowers were irresistible
Don't you feel like picking one?? We were arguing whether these are tortoises or turttles. Is there a difference n'way??

Yea and ofcourse the plants.

Because of love!!!

This was the conference in Austria during Easter!

Matooke in Trondheim!!

If you've not heard about Matooke, then you know so little about me!!! He he he...what d u think? That's my best dish. Was so thrilled to find it here. Pics of when it's green to when it's ready to eat!!!

At Gunn's 4 dinner!


We did find him. Uhmm u shd see too!!

Thursday, March 13, 2008

The baptism

Thumbs up for Jirang....he went and did it!!!

Sammy visiting

Sammy var har fra fra 5th til 9th. Det var fint å være sammem med ham. Først laget vi chapati, og gikk vi på tur midt Trondheim. Som bilder er har.

An easter egg fra Ingrid og Lynn
At Shella's with her cuties
Trying out the earing!!
Og vi spiste chapati men ikke sukuma.
At Jirang's baptism.

Snø

Tideliboom....well I guess this says abit of what is here. We keep joking calling it Norwegian mud.

Trondheim Art Museum


Been there..seen it all. Ohh the art is so great..veldig gamle male men det var fint!!! Ann took me around..it costs 30kr for students. Uhhhm well if you've been to a museum then you sure know I could not take pictures. But well got this!!

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Mum or Nanny???


He is soooo cute...and very peaceful. A day with Eldad!!

Chubby chubby.....

C7 bible group.

Clearing the way for members b4 the meeting.I've had moments that I'll never 4get in this group...I just love the fact that we can talk about n'thing. Here we had just finished sharing about where we grew up and how it was growing up...then how we got to be Christians.

I oslo med Uncle Sam, Faith, Aina og Kay

Feb 29th a girl proposes but if the brother says NO then he gives 12 gloves...uhhm. The habour...shd take a boat ride one time.

"Å du som metter liten fugl...."
As a wood scientist, this caught my attention. Feighning anger.....guess I did it..tho the baby is better.
Breakfast in the sun....thot of Ug.


Ja, so you know I reached the palace!!!


Taking a stroll around Oslo city.

We left on Friday for Oslo on the night train after the felloship meeting...Bjørn og Tolkel took us 2 the station. The journey was quite long...reached Oslo in the morning, got day cards and went to Aina's place. We met Uncle Sam og Kay later...went sightseeing, to an exhibition"If you were to leave one message to the rest of humanity what would it be"...this was quite interesting. Got quotes from famous writers...."Love till it hurts", "At the end you only have what you give...Isabel Allende", "Try to do things that people can't ignore"......We then visited the Vigeland park, went to Kay's for dinner, visited Uncle Sam's place and haaa.. saw baby Timothy! We had breakfast in the SUN the following day, and left for the train station...on our way, the palace guards were being changed...that was good to look at. Oh..saw flowers. Spring is at hand!!! Had a long journey back to TRD.


Monday, February 25, 2008

The weekend!






Pa Mjuklia...Had a great time with the children.

Monday, February 18, 2008

Egypt


Apparently Joseph gave birth.

Spring in Trondheim!!!

Yeah right...global warming!!!! We were all astounded to see a tree sprouting leaves!!! we all agreed it's abit early for spring...did I say "we"? Any how couldn't resist a pic.
Flowers i Oslo.